You have a sinking feeling inside that your boyfriend isn't as into you now as he once was. You've probably asked him about it and he's likely told you that everything is fine and that you're letting your imagination get the best of you. You just can't let go of what you feel though. He seems distracted and distant and it's wearing you down emotionally. You don't want to continue to feel this way because you're constantly unsure of whether or not there's a future for the two of you. If you're tired of trying to read between the lines of what he says and the things he does, there is a better way. There are some ways to tell for certain that your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore.
Understanding how to tell if your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore involves looking past what you want the relationship to be towards what it actually is in reality. You may be overlooking some glaring signs that he's feeling disconnected from you emotionally and physically. As hard as it is you must try and place yourself outside the relationship as if you're a stranger looking in.
Begin by considering how often he tells you he loves you. One very common mistake that women make when they've been involved with a man for some time is they believe that he'll express what he feels less and less because he's gotten so comfortable. A man in love will still tell the woman of his desires how he feels. He won't wait for her to say she loves him first. He'll be the one to proclaim it loudly, each and every day. You can test this theory out yourself by not expressing your adoration for your guy this week. If he never shares how much he cares for you, that's a problem.
You can also tell if your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore if he breaks plans with you at the last minute. Not only is this a sign that he's pulling away it's also a strong sign of disrespect. He may view you as an adequate last resort and will keep you on hold unless something better comes up. If he's done this to you more than once and his reasoning didn't sound believable, you're right to be concerned. He's likely securing plans with you and then actively searching for other people to spend time with. If your inner instinct is telling you this is the case, listen to it. It won't often steer you wrong.