Are you losing the man you love? Do you feel your boyfriend slowly detaching himself emotionally from the relationship? It's hard, isn't it? You know in your heart that he's the man for you and you wish that there was a way you can rewind time back to when he was as hopelessly in love with you as you are with him. Unfortunately, you have to live in the here and now and face the fact that his feelings are changing and he's considering a break up. Unless you take specific, calculated steps right now the relationship is going to die.
When you are losing the man you love your first instinct is to do whatever you can to make him love you again. This is when women typically go into overboard mode and start acting in a way their boyfriend finds really unappealing. It usually involves a lot of tears, some pleading and perhaps even some yelling. It's a challenging situation emotionally for any woman and when a man is confronted with a girlfriend who is falling apart in front of his eyes, he'll feel very justified in his decision to pull away.
If you want to keep your boyfriend you're going to have to draw on your maturity as a woman. Relationships sometimes change and we have to change with them. If he's losing interest in you, you need to figure out why that is. Be honest with yourself when you're evaluating this. Maybe you did something that got under his skin or perhaps you've allowed the relationship to fall into the abyss of monotony and boredom. Whatever it is, work on remedying it as soon as you can.
You may feel a strong desire to make your boyfriend stay but seriously consider what he's feeling. If he seems to be distant or doesn't spend as much time with you anymore, don't chase after him. That devalues you as a woman and a partner. Let him go for now and try and see the value in it.
Often, when a couple does spend some time apart it clarifies everything for both of them. Right now, since you two are still together, your boyfriend is only focusing on the negative aspects of you and the relationship. He can't see those qualities in you that he found so endearing when you two first got together. A few days or weeks apart will help bring everything back into perspective for him. He'll truly understand how much he misses you when you're not together and it will make him see that losing you may not be what he wants after all.